Tick!Tock!Tick!Tock!

Time continues to go on, leaving me behind...i am sooo lost, i can't even identify with time anymore. end of the years was something i look forward to every single year for as long as i can remember...my November n December went by without me taking any notice of it.

ive made promises after promises to myself that i keep on breaking, i'm lost...lost for time... we've had all kinds of holidays that passed, with me not having a clue at all...for the first time i had no plans for new year...for the first time i didnt even realise it was 31st December, for the first time, life went by like it was just any other day in my life.

i've blamed it all on so many things..but i know that there is something bothering me that i can't quite put a finger to it. there's so many things to do, yet i stare blankly at things..not digesting anything. i just do, coz i have to, coz time is running out, coz i have to prepare...my mind is somewhere else..i am distracted, i am not focused..i am...LOST!

no, not blaming it on the wedding...its only 39 days away..yes, 39 days...yet, i've no clue at all how its gonna be...i've no idea..or i dont have any glimpse of whats gna happen in 39 days...is that normal? i used to dream of the day when i tie the knot..but as the day approaches...its a HUGE blank...

i hate not knowing whats gonna happen, i hate guessing what its gna b like, i hate not having control of how things are going to turn out...i hate to think that what im used to, my norms, my routine, me coming back home to my family...is not gonna be the same after 39 days from today.

i know that i want this, i know that i wna be with you, i know that i do wna get married to u, i know that it is you, no doubt! 

but i hate knowing that things will change, most importantly...i know that i'm scared..i'm scared that i can't be your trophy wife, that i'll not know what to do..that i wont know what a wife is supposed to knw/do...that on top of everything...i'll fail miserably.

i need time...time to actually think n digest...

time to tell sasha lyna that she's ACTUALLY getting married...

that sasha lyna can no longer be the baby...

that sasha lyna is going to be someone's WIFE..

that sasha lyna can no longer be her lazy self, 

that sasha lyna has to start being punctual, 

that sasha lyna is going to have a new set of family in her life, 

that sasha lyna can no longer do things spontaneously as she pleases, 

that sasha lyna now has bigger responsibility, 

that sasha lyna might one day be responsible for another human life, 

that she is no longer 16 and thinks that she's still a school girl, 

that sasha lyna can no longer sleep in her bed alone, 

that sasha lyna has to make 2 sets of meals instead of 1, 

that sasha lyna actually has to mandi more than 1 time a day, 

that sasha lyna can no longer wear caftans to sleep, 

that sasha lyna can't just say yes to every plan that comes her way, 

that sasha lyna can't just book a flight whenever there's airasia promotion, 

that sasha lyna can't book 1 ticket but now has to book 2 tickets. 

that sasha lyna will actually have to start to listen to someone and not just herself, 

that sasha lyna will have a husband!

banyak kan bernda nk bitau sasha lyna....sasha lyna is in a daze or a phase now...she's just floating and going with the flow...succumbing to everything and just bobbing her head up n down...

let's just hope i do get the chance to wake sasha lyna up from her slumber and make her come back to reality and digest all this things!

lets just hope that i do get to her before the 39 days end :)

p/s: reading this to myself makes me more SAD... i know i'm supposed to be jumping with joy...smiling to my ears and be as merry and happy as anyone can possibly be...i'm not saying i'm not, that i'm not ecstatic bout the wedding...i'm just....*blank*

some of the things husbands should do :)

Well hello,

came across this as i was browsing n just felt that i wanted to share it with everyone :) men always think that we're so hard to please without realising that we make things so easy for them that they don't even have to ask (maybe that's a mistake at our end)... but its just that little extra effort that actually goes a loooooong way and could have avoided all the unnecessary muncungness n merajukness ;p

and it has nothing to do with ego, for me if you love that someone, ape salahnye if anyone says you're gedik with your gf/wifey? ;)

*hugs*

PETUA-PETUA KAHWIN

Bagaimana mengekalkan perhubungan bahagia? Apakah petuanya bagi suami untuk menambat hati isteri?

· Sentiasa berdoa agar disayangi.

· Apabila balik rumah, tegur dan sentuh isteri sebelum buat kerja lain.

· Tunjukkan keprihatinan dengan bertanya secara khusus mengenai kegiatan isteri sepanjang hari.

· Jadikan seorang pendengar yang baik kepada isteri .Jangan tergesa-gesa untuk menyelesai masalah isteri. Apa yang lebih penting adalah simpati.

· Berikan masa sekurang-kurangnya 30 minit perhatian yang berkualiti terhadap isteri.

· Berikan bunga, minyak wangi atau seumpamanya sebagai hadiah atau untuk memujuk ketika isteri sedang marah.

· Tolong masak atau ajak makan di luar sekali sekala.

· Beri pujian mengenai penampilan isteri (rambut, wajah, pakaian dan sebagainya).

· Pujuk apabila isteri marah atau kecil hati.

· Beri bantuan atau kerjasama setakat yang mampu.

· Luangkan masa yang lebih agar tidak mendesak isteri untuk lebih cepat bergerak atau bertindak.

· Jika lambat pulang, beritahu lebih awal atau telefon rumah.

· Sekiranya isteri minta bantuan, nyatakan boleh atau tidak dengan tidak mengungkit atau banyak komen.

· Jika anda perlu bersendirian untuk berfikir, beritahu bila anda akan pulang.

· Apabila sudah sejuk, beritahu isteri apa yang mengganggu fikiran secara sopan. Jangan menyalahkan isteri.

· Bila isteri bercakap, beri perhatian sepenuhnya.

· Apabila keluar, tanya isteri kalau ada sesuatu yang ingin dipesan.

· Beritahu bila kita ingin berehat atau tidur.

· Peluk isteri dengan penuh kasih sayang sekurang-kurangnya empat kali sehari.

· Telefon isteri dari tempat kerja untuk bertanya khabar, sekadar ingin memberitahu "AKU CINTA PADAMU ".

· Ucapkan kata-kata sayang sekurang-kurangnya dua kali sehari.

· Tolong kemaskan katil atau bilik tidur.

· Ajak isteri berjalan-jalan tanpa anak-anak.

· Cuba tunaikan apa yang isteri hajati.

· Nyatakan anda merinduinya bila berjauhan.

· Bawa pulang buah tangan, kuih kegemaran isteri sekali sekala.

· Sentiasa lakukan ibadah bersama.

· Jika keluar daerah,telefon isteri memberitahu nombor telefon tempat penginapan dan memberitahu anda sudah selamat sampai.

· Sentiasa kemas dan wangi sebelum tidur bersama.

· Urut belakang isteri sekali sekala.

· Peluk dan belai isteri sekali sekala tanpa implikasi seksual.

· Sabar dan tenang apabila mendengar cerita dan masalah isteri.

· Pamerkan kasih sayang di khalayak ramai. Jangan abaikan isteri atau tinggalkannya jauh ketika berjalan.

· Apabila keluar berjalan, elok berpegangan tangan untuk menunjukkan kemesraan.

· Buatkan air minuman untuk isteri sekali sekala.

· Ketika makan di luar, jangan harapkan isteri memilih tempat makan setiap masa.

· Beri perhatian lebih kepada isteri daripada orang lain ketika di kalayak ramai.

· Lebihkan isteri daripada anak-anak.

· Bila isteri kurang sihat, beri perhatian sewajarnya. Manjakan isteri sepertimana dia memanjakan anda.

· Seeloknya masuk tidur serentak.

· Belai isteri sebelum pergi kerja.

· Ucapkan terima kasih setiap khidmat yang isteri berikan.

· Cari masa untuk berdua-duaan sekali sekala.

· Lakukan riadah bersama isteri.

· Pergi berkelah sekali sekala.

· Tolong cuci atau jemur pakaian sekali sekala.

tatkala some ladies, who i think are very insecure rase that they have to have a club for how to be a 'taat' wife... it still goes back to mutual respect, communication, toleransi and love for each other la..

well, at the end of the day, if the guy strays...its his loss la..enough of women having to feel that they are to be blame for everything that happens or they are at a loss or that no one wants them other than their current significant other. i say, believe and have faith in Allah as He knws what is best for you. even if you don't end up with anyone else after that as surely He has planned something better for you. Amin.

and to those who already has a hub who does most of the things on the list above, KEEP him or shud i say, LUCKY B*t**! ;p

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BEST KOTT BENDA INI...TP, IS IT SOMETHING I need OR IS IT A want...MUAAHAHAHA...

Hati,
Mengapa begitu mudah kau tersentuh?
Is it bcoz of old age?
Is stepping into 28 becoming too much for you?
Or is that a mere alasan?

Kawan,
Mengapa ku terasa kau begitu jauh?
Mengapa kau hadir hanya di waktu gembira?
Di mana kau sewaktu air mata ku jatuh berguguran?

Cinta,
Begitu mudahkah mencintai?
Begitu mudahkah melukakan hati?
Begitu mudahkah kita bermadah?

Kenyataan,
Yang mana harus ku ikuti?
Antara pemikiran dan perasaan
Antara tawa dan air mata.

Teman,
Di saat ku keseorangan
Di saat ku memerlukan
Kau wujud di setiap ruang perjuanganku.

Masa,
Begitu kejam kau kepadaku
Menjalani sesaat dengan kebisaan
Terlalu perlahan detikmu.

Sayang dan pengorbanan
Terlalu pedih untuk ku tempuhi
Selagi hatiku bisa menerima
Kepahitan menghitung waktu
Dan perilakumu membuatkan
Titisan titisan airmata bertanya
Adakah untung atau rugi
Butir-butirku
Jatuh menyembah bumi.

SECRETS...

SECRETS..

EVERYONE HAS IT..

SOME WANTS TO KEEP IT AS TIGHT AS POSSIBLE,

SOME WANT OTHERS TO KNW THAT THERE'S A SECRET BUT ONLY IF U'RE LUCKY U'LL KNOW WHAT IT IS,

SOME WANTS YOU TO KEEP ON WONDERING,

SOME WANTS THE WHOLE WORLD TO KNOW OF IT!

WELL, WHICH CATEGORY OF A SECRET KEEPER ARE YOU?

SKELETONS IN THE CLOSET ARE BEST KEPT IN THE CLOSET AS WHO IN THE RIGHT FRAME OF MIND WOULD WANT TO HAVE SKELETONS CREEPING OUT OF THE CLOSET?

SECRETS ARE BEST KEPT HUSH-HUSH! SECRETS SHOULD REMAIN AS SUCH!

SECRETS CAN BRING PEOPLE OR NATION APART..

SECRETS ARE A GIRL'S BEST FRIEND...FOR WHAT HE DOES NOT KNOW SHALL NOT HURT HIM...OR IS IT A GUY'S BEST FRIEND, ON ONE HAND YOU'RE A HERO ON THE OTHER HAND YOU'RE A ZERO!

EVERYONE WEARS MASKS TO COVER THE SECRETS THAT LIES BENEATH..FOR EVERYONE HAS A SHADOW THAT KEEPS THEM IN CHECK, THAT KNOWS EVERY DEEPEST DARKEST SECRETS...

WHEN WILL IT SET U FREE?

FOR SECRETS ARE FOREVER 2 STEPS BEHIND YOU!

pulling my hair nerve wreck

i have a feeling that this week is gonna be a mess! that im gonna get on everyone's nerves and im gonna be extra annoyed by everything...my coughing isnt helping one bit too...

an example of how i might react to things is as below:

yup...its THAT nerve wrecking!!!i hope everything goes well as planned..He knows best, i will redha to whatever decisions He has for me :)

Amin.

i hope i can be NONATTACHED to it and buat2 rilek...

i can only hope...

chiLLax..

One of the hardest thing to do is to be happy for someone

especially when the something we're happy for is something we want for ourselves

tp pls know that He knows what is in our hearts and He knows best

He knows when we are ready and able

He knows when it is a good time

He has planned this even when we were in our mothers womb.

it is also a way for Him to test our patience

it is also a way for Him to give us guidance

so, wish that someone the best and give her a silent prayer

and then we wait for Him to bless us with such good things as well.

:)

so sha, CHILL...sap kok lu..... :)

doa aku untuk kau

aku sayang kau TP kau wat aku sedih bile kau sedih

kau kawan aku

aku kawan kau

TP nape kau x nampak yg kesedihan kau

sesuatu yang mungkin dapat dielakkan

Dia Maha Adil

Dia Mengetahui semua yang kita tak tau

yakinlah dengan Dia

dan Dia memang takkan menghampakan Kau.

Jangan Kau lupa apa yang Dia dah Bagi

semata2 sbb kau rase org2 sekeliling kau

lebih beruntung,

mungkin kau silap.

Ketahuilah dan aku rasa kau dah tau pun

yang apa yang kita rasa dan kita cakap berkali2

umpama Doa yg terkumat-kamit di mulut kita

tak kita sedar, apa yang kita kamitkan

mungkin dimakbulkan.

buka lah mata dan hati

buka lah dengan keikhlasan

insyaAllah semua yang kau ragui dan takuti

Dia akan hilangkan selama2nya

doa aku untuk kau

Amin.

wishes & vibes

inasmuch as your comments counts,
i am not sure why it affects me so,
another person can say the same thg,
but the meaning wudnt be the same.

i can't tell when it comes to u,
or probably i know u too well,
n i'm trying to deny whatever vibe that im getting,
all in all, jst be happy for me.

wish for the best,
wish for stars,
that's what i'd wish for u,
only question is, is that what ure wishing for me?

planning & IT

I stopped planning for IT. Not because I don’t feel like it, not because its not gonna happened, its just not the time yet.

I know planning is everything and it ensures that at least 80% of what u want is going to materialize but not everyone is lucky to have that kind of leisure. Its not something that everyone has. I wont say that u need to be lucky to have it. I’d just say that I don’t have it yet.

Planning n not having it the way u want it, for me hurts more. N not planning and having it happened sounds spontaneous but not all acts of spontaneity is good kan.

Hahaha,talking in riddles is good. Just makes you think about it even more.

All I can say is, He knows best and I know I have a good head on my shoulders. I’d take it personally for awhile but after that I know that it’ll just gna b as awesome as I have ever wanted or imagined it to be because the result that comes out of it, is more important than anything else in the whole wide world!

how i celebrated my 27th on 27th of March 2010

this goes out to all my amazing frens out there! i know i am blessed with so many ppl who care n would go an extra mile just to put a smile on my face :) (maybe also because i've been pestering for a bday party since January..hahaha)

NOTE: don't get an honest, punctual bf to brg the bday gal to the surprise party :) syg, i love u...(u didnt spoil it lah, i love u more for being you!n i was seriously surprised!)

the day started with me having to go for a meeting at legal aid..met far, murnie, fadiah, farida n all at the meeting n far said she needs to got to low yat later in the evening to but laptop for her sis.. recommended my IT hero bf to help get a good n not so pricey one.. :)

agak excited sbb my bf janji nk surprise me for my bday..n super excited cz that means i can spend time with him n we could just hang out n talk n chill..something within those lines..

he didnt wna tell me where we're going..far n ayu tanye n day..i ws excited n said he was planning this for us to spend time together n he didnt wna tell me where we were going or wad we're gna do..ooo, mysterious..

ayu called n said she tgh jalan2 kt ipoh sorang n nk g mkn sushi sorang..n the only time she's free to cm back is on the 14th..2 months after her wedding..it meant tht i didnt meet my bff for 2 mnhts...that's waaaay tooo long!n i told -u- that i only cn meet ayu after 2 mnths..that sucked!

n after meeting up lk quite late..cz he said we were gna meet lk around petang..n then jmpe pon lk near 7..so i ws sorta restless cz no clue n idea wht was in his head n he didnt want to tell me ape2..(now i know i hate NOT being able to control things!)...

then after da pusing2, i serious NO idea where he was going...(he ws getting calls n didnt want me to hear..so i knda figured something was up..)n of all the places, he ajak to minum2 at pusat bandar damansara?...ok for one, we NEVER go there n 2, there's nothing there!hhrrmmm.....ok..this MUST BE A HUGE PLAN he has..

then far called n said she's going to low yatt n that was near 8pm..n -u- said low yatt nk tutup da time tu..so i said, y not go tmrw n we cud go with her..hhrrmmm...

then off we went n still pusing2..n then we went into duta vista..i was lk seriously?..ok..

then masuk parking..then the 1st thg i saw was far's car...hahahah...i ws like OK..this is the master plan!!i didnt say anyting..n he parked next to far's car (haaaiihh, comel sgt bf ku nie..)..then ade 4 wheel drive parked in front of us n i saw sarah kambali n hubby, shahril..then i burst out laughing..

he knew smthing was up so i said, 1stly, u parked sbelah far...n 2ndly, yg baru park tu is my fren n her hubby ;D

n sar didnt see us, he ws laughing n said, xpe..i can still act surprise..

then there was a white proton saga trying to park in front of us..once, twice...three time, xleh masuk..n he said, keta putih ni pulak...n i still ws blur..then i saw HER...my BFF..HERE...in K.L!!i love you!!n we honk her n she was irritated until she saw me n -U- laughing our heads off..

then there was another car...red myvi..nak jgak squeeze in the same carpark ayu cudnt get into..IT WAS MY CUZZIE..KAKAK!!pon tak nmpak i..n we honk her too..she was annoyed until she saw me!!hehehe..

n then the BLUE SAVVY--syad!..

all got out n screamed at -u-..y didnt u blindfold her..-u- ws like y korang lmbat in the 1st place...hahaha...lawak2!!

pastu plan nk turun same2 then they said y not korang tggu kt keta dulu..dtg lmbat sket..(i thot they wud tell far, the surprise da blown...NOPE, they didnt..pndai tol kwn2 aku..hahaha..

we went back to the car -u- apologised for ruining my surprise (n u didnt!!seriously!)

i cudnt STOP smiling!!

sgt2 happy that u all wnt thru the planning n the trouble to get n cook the food!!thank u!!n i am trully happy n honoured to have amazing people in my life!n sgt2 trharu with all the effort! i had a great time (except the fact tht the BF went futsalling n then came back!tp xpe,with cnsent da kan...) n saaayyaaaang korang sume k!

FOOOOOOD WAS LOVELY!!

n the party continued till the next day!! ;)

sayang: ok ape birthday i lasted for 8 days..shows how truly blessed i am to have lovely people in my life!

PICS courtesy of ms shuey..(im thinking the I.T cum photog bf didnt brg his camera cz he was in character, kan yang?)




















THE ONLY THING THAT IS MISSING FROM THE PIC IS......-U- ;(

BUT I HAD TONS OF FUN N STILL CANT STOP SMILING....THANK YOU AGAIN...FAR, I SALUTE YOU!!HUGSSSS N KISSEESSSS...SMOOCHES!

sasha lyna

in every aspect of my life, i usually look for things that makes me happy,
i have a bad day, it brings joy for me to go back and just hang out with mahmoud and rayyan n arriana,
when i need a breather, i just swing by dayah's room and have a chat or call my besties and have a good laugh,
when i need someone to make my day, i usually call -u- or think of -u- n his antics n it'll bring a smile to my face or i let out my huge laugh n ppl start to look at me with puzzled-face,
when i need cash, i'll turn to farhana ;) or my sis n make some sob stories,
when i need solace or the best feeling;closest to heaven i'd say..is to be in the arms of my mother.

i am blessed n i thank Him for all the good things He has given me.

i'm surrounded by family n friends and loved ones, i thank You.
i have means and i have clothes to wear, i thank You.
i have a roof on top of my head, i thank You.
i have my own car, i thank You.
i have people i can turn to, i thank You.
i have a job and it pays my bills, i thank You.

i'm sorry if at times i whine,
i'm sorry if at times i want more,
i'm sorry if at times i appear to be ungrateful,
i'm sorry if at times i forget,
i'm sorry if at times i don't count my blessings,
i'm sorry that at times i ask for more.

i am blessed and i am thankful.

now for one more thing - permudahkanlah urusan kami, yaAllah dan tunjuki la kami ke jalan Mu dan jgnlah jadikan kami diantara mereka2 yang sesat dan menyesatkan.Amin.

~ManJa~

if i go back to sasha@14 n she met me as in who i am today..she'd prolly gelak guling2 or be so disgusted as to how gedik ive become. she'd be proud that i didnt turned out an unemployed,no brainer,no life, no income loser but still i suspect she'd be a tad annoyed.

i dont know or never realised when it happened but i guess with age and experience, it rides with it. (just like ive always HAD this vision of me for the longest time, UNTIL quite recently ;) *hint* see pic below)



;D even that i tak realised when it happened so went on with it feeling HAWT n AWESOME all the time (actually now pun rase HAWT n AWESOME cume NAK LAGI CHUNNESS n LAWA) p/s:who else can claim their name to be sasha lawa? suke2 kan... hehehe

orayt so, i guess i didnt cut out to be soo MANJ when i ws younger coz there was no reason for it at that time (altho mum wud, everytime without fail, when she follows dad to send me to school, yells out my nickname so that everyone can hear..moontap, shi nonoi and the likes..n i swear i saw some juniors giggling after hearing that..n my face akan blush tak hengat!!)

but now, its become more apparent as to how MANJ i can be..i dunno why but i always KENA marah when im PMS-ing..its prolly coz when i kna marah at other times, it doesnt bother me as much cz i'll just forget bout it n wont fret BUT if its mase that time of the month, the reaction is just waaayyy too over the top!

what's the purpose of this?

ive come to realise that everytime (or most of the time) after i kna marah ngn THE boss, i'd terus pk nk tuka keje la, tuka career la etc (smlm siap register job street k)..hehehe..

but like i said kt my earlier post...mgkin its time da that i think about it..(he told me not to be stupid n have a narrow minded person nyer thoughts of changing firm every now n then..)

i should sit down n have a chat with myself n discuss where i wna be in ten years time from now!(sneak peak: I WANNA BE @ HOME AND TAKING CARE OF BRATTY SPOILT BABIES AND TRAVELLING,can?)

PMS-ing so its a SIGN that i shud be blogging ;)

inspired by Aliza daripada takder post lame gile, tetibe da post 5 entry..WOW!n love ur writings, feels like ure here nxt to me n being u!miss u!!

well things have been up n down and lotsa happy stuff happening to..ayu's married, lily's got a son (phew!), fyad driving on her own(how did that happened?), met -u-'s granma n extended family (phew!) n lotsa other stuff.. :)

but what has been such a struggle (yes, struggle) is trying to convice(yes, convince!) some people that PMS-ing is not by choice!i mean i'd like to be happy and laugh n smile all the time, heck, that's what i do most of the time. its just sometimes, i get annoyed and irritated easily and things that must not be said at that period of time, SHOULD be left UNSAID!

i know everything is in the head but not everything is within our control kan..gals, back me up here! ;)

its just THAT PART OF THE MONTH k..sorry if i marah2 u k..(like u say when i kacau u tido.."THAT's NOT ME!" ;p

petua-petua :)

Gambir Penawar Gatal
Sekiranya ada masalah gatal pada kulit dan kelenkang, cuba petua ini. Ambil sekeping gambir, masukkan kedalam piring kecil kemudian basahkan gambir dengan sedikit air supaya ia kembang. Kemudian sapu pada bahagian gatal. Selamat Mencuba.

Hilangkan Daki dan Bau Badan
Kita sering menghadapi masalah daki dan bau badan terutama bakal pengantin. Untuk mengatasinya, gunakan pucuk jambu batu. Ramas ia didalam air dan gosokkan pada badan. Selepas itu, bilas dengan air limau purut. Lakukan seminggu sebelum tarikh perkahwinan. Insya-Allah, kulit kita akan bersih dan bau badan pun hilang.

Ketiak Hitam
Air kapur sirih dan limau nipis dicampurkan serta gosokkan pada ketiak selepas mandi. Amalkan selama tujuh hari, ketiak tidak berbau dan kehitaman akan pudar.

Menghilangkan Bau Ketiak
Amalkan semasa mandi, gosok ketiak di atas kepala lutut. Selain itu, setiap kali lepas mandi, sapu dengan belakang tapak tangan pada bahagian bawah ketiak.

Hilangkan Parut
Jika anda mempunyai kesan parut, anda boleh menghilangkannya dengan menyapu lendir lidah buaya. Cuma sapu lendir itu pada parut. Lakukan tiga kali seminggu. Insya-Allah, parut akan hilang.

Khasiat Oat
Oat, selain enak dimakan, juga berkesan merawat kulit kering dan berkedut. Caranya, bubuh dua camca teh oat didalam mengkuk, gaulkan dengan susu pembersih muka atau pelembap muka dan sapu pada kulit (sental kulit dengan penyental dahulu). Tunggu 5 - 10 minit dan bolehlah dicuci. Hasilnya kulit lembut, halus, tidak kering serta menjimatkan wang.

Menurunkan Berat Badan
- Masalah berat badan, sering menggangu fikiran wanita.Tetapi kini anda tidak perlu risau kerana ada petua murah dan mudah. Ambil dua biji lobak merah dan sebiji timun.Parut dan perah airnya. Parutan itu dicampur sebiji air limau nipis. Bancuh hingga sebati dan minum dua kali sehari. Amalkan setiap hari hingga berat badan anda turun.

- Ambil 3 sudu besar serbuk teh cina dan rendam dalam air. Tapis dan campurkan dengan air perahan limau nipis. Amalkan selalu meminumnya 2 kali sehari iaitu sebelum sarapan dan sebelum tidur. Menurunkan Berat Badan

- Sediakan dua biji limau nipis atau limau kasturi setiap hari. Perah airnya ke dalam gelas yg berisi air sejuk. Masukkan ke dalam peti ais. Amalkan minum selepas makan tengahari atau selepas makan malam.

- Dua biji lobak merah dan sebiji timun diparut dan diperah airnya. Campur dgn sebiji air limau nipis dan bancuh hingga sebati. Minum dua kali sehari. Amalkan sehingga mencapai berat badan ideal.

Perut Buncit
Gilingkan kapur sirih bersama daun jambu batu. Sapukan keperut setiap hari sehingga perut menjadi kempis.

Sengal Tulang
Bagi anda yang selalu mengidap sakit sengal tulang, cubalah petua ini. Ambil sedikit getah pohon kemboja dan sapukan pada sendi yang terasa sengal sambil berselawat. Cara ini dipercayai dapat meredakan sakit sengal tulang dengan berkesan.

Keputihan
Mandi dengan air suam rebusan daun sirih selama tujuh hari untuk membersihkan vagina, rasa gatal dan keputihan akan hilang. Amalan memakan daun sirih setiap hari juga boleh mengelakkan dari masalah keputihan.

Menghilangkan Bau Mulut
Tumbuk lumat sepuluh kuntum bunga cengkeh dan tiga ulas bawang putih. Kemudian gosokkan kepada gigi dan berkumur hingga bersih. Lakukannya tiga hari sekali.

Merawat Panau
Ambil sepotong halia, tumbuk lumat dan tempelkan pada tempat berpanau.

Tegangkan Payudara
Amalkan meminum air kanji (air didih nasi)sebelum tidur malam. Insyaallah mujarab.

Menghilangkan Lebam Mata
Teh uncang yg telah digunakan jangan buang. Lekap pada mata dan biarkan semalaman. Lakukan 3 kali seminggu ketika hendak masuk tidur.

My God, Your God

a mentor once said that a blog should NOT just be about expressing your love or hate bout someone or something, memandang we're somewhat learned, we should also put our two cents on issues! :) baiklah, saya akan amik kata-kata itu sebagai cabaran!

LABELLING- nape sume benda kena dilabelkan..LIBERAL, CONSERVATIVE, IDEALIST, HARAM, HALAL (sampai satu tahap semua benda kna ade tanda halal n not subjected to food sahaja dah) N smpai rakyat pun nk dilabelkan..we're no longer MALAYSIANS, we're now 1malaysia?..apekah?(isu dalaman n racial discourse pon tak settle lg n is swept under the carpet the whole time, ade ati nk gune ONE MALAYSIA?how la like that?

time n time again i'll get numerous questions bout my stand, nasib baik penah pg advance training di legal aid centre kuala lumpur n also orientation sbb mase itu, kami disuruh wat satu sesi, where do u stand! :) promote sket.

issue utk hari ni: ALLAH

lg satu nk stress kan, MELAYU vs. ISLAM (MUSLIMS)

i read a post by a fren who wrote, acapkali if die melatah, die akan sebut, YA ALLAH n kawan Kristian die akan sebut (bile kawan Kristian die tu melatah,JESUS CHRIST)..n then she said that, since the Court had decided (High Court) that Allah is to be / can be used by everyone, so nnt yg dok sebut Jesus Christ pun akan la tersebut YA Allah.

sasha : APA ISSUE DIE?...

once i was at a book store, legal book store n betol2 dekat pintu masuk die ade pamphlets n it was about religion. macam2 n dwi bahasa..so it was interesting to me that this was free pamphlets. so i took a few n i begun to read..n dlm bm nyer it was talking bout Nabi Isa a.s. n how he has saved human kind and that we should adore Him n all..

i was shocked!i was mad!i was juvenile!! i was shocked n mad coz wut the hell, suke2 tulis pasal kristian in BM..nnt org cnfuse cane?tak semua org ISLAM tu tau nk bezakan nnt..nnt org MELAYU bace msti die igt tgh cakap sal ISLAM padahal nie tgh citer sal KRISTIAN.

this was sometime back so masih kanak2 masa tu..pikiran tak matang!

but even so, i was even MAD at myself.since when bahasa melayu tu utk melayu sahaja?just because it is written in Malay it can't be about other religion?

as i was writing this, i came across a few blogs and i guess i kinda agree with them too...so now saya torn!TAPI....

my point of view is that we should not be worried bout creating confusion and blaming others for creating it!in the 1st place if it is clear that it states bout kitab injil, pasal konsep triniti, pasal Nabi Isa a.s as the son of God, surely it is NOT about islam.

Allahuakbar, Allah Maha Besar.(surely He who knoweth best knows what is in our hearts).--> so if christians writes Anak Allah to refer to Jesus, adakah ianya bermaksud kita sbg Muslims prcaya benda tu? the sanctity of our belief tak falter just because another prefers to use Allah, mungkin lg sedap bunyi Allah berbanding God, or Lord, or Jesus.


lagi besar issue die (other than the christians wants to/must confuse muslims so they have to use Allah), IS what are we going to do bout our fellow muslims yg boleh terconfuse although terang2an Allah tertera di situ TAPI mendiskusikan ceritera kristian or other religion?

isnt that a bigger perjuangan than memekak nak cerita pasal apahal org kristian nk gune Allah utk merujuk kepada Tuhan?

there was this one post, even the christians yg worried sbb takut christians pon confuse. (kite alpa yg mgkin bertempik ni satu golongan kecil dr satu komuniti yg besar, jgn terus siap sedia dengan perdebatan yg ini membabitkan isu ISLAM vs KRISTIAN, that's too narrow minded)

mungkin ada agenda, mungkin tidak (sbb on another note, a fren and mentor also said, igt takde keje ke cina nak mengenakan melayu so they put babi in everything, igt babi tu murah ker?)...

i feel that sometimes people are soooooo insecure n ignorant that we jump at every possible point n attack the 'predator' although there is no need to do so..(survival of the fittest!)

Islam, the religion is STRONG by itself apatah lagi Allah s.w.t!

i have an a fren who is Hindu, and she melatah she says, ya Allah or sometimes even ya Rabbi.should i give her the stare and drag her to court?n when asked y she does so, she said she studied sejarah islam for STPM and she LOVED it. and doesnt that feel good?if i had gvn her the stare for 'stealing' the name of MY GOD, bukan ke da mendatangkan musibah?

ade org kate semua ni saje nk mncabar org islam?y the crude reaction?

there's another that said that we must be firm against the use of Allah for christianity sbb konsep tak sama!!in Islam Allah is THE ONE, in christianity ade konsep trinity n Jesus as son of God, so nnt org igt Allah ade son who is Jesus..(sigh!)

i say give MUSLIMS some credit!

what can easily be done to elakkan all the confusion n doubt, KDN should make the Herald or any one who wishes to do so, letak BESAR-BESAR & TERANG-TERANG, INI UNTUK AGAMA KRISTIAN etc.

DONE.

how to create peace n harmony if org brtempik jer kiter react...

lg satu, nape mereka boleh ade pamphlets free merata2 n accessible tapi kita kena tercari2 dan beli baru dapat info psal Islam...renung2kan..

blogs ive read:

http://mahaguru58.blogspot.com/2010/01/is-calling-christian-god-allah-wrong-by.html

http://jebatmustdie.wordpress.com/2010/01/04/sensitiviti-umat-islam-dipijak-pijak/

http://ladyohara.blogspot.com/2010/01/allah.html

http://thereflectiveheart.wordpress.com/2010/01/03/blasphemy-most-foul/


i end with this:
Al-Baqara
In the name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful
Alif. Lam. Mim. (1) This is the Scripture whereof there is no doubt, a guidance unto those who ward off (evil). (2) Who believe in the Unseen, and establish worship, and spend of that We have bestowed upon them; (3) And who believe in that which is revealed unto thee (Muhammad) and that which was revealed before thee, and are certain of the Hereafter. (4) These depend on guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.

and as for the unbelievers:
(5) As for the Disbelievers, Whether thou warn them or thou warn them not it is all one for them; they believe not. (6) Allah hath sealed their hearing and their hearts, and on their eyes there is a covering. Theirs will be an awful doom.

so:
it all berbalik kpd kita. we believe in Allah and He will give us guidance. those who do not, even if they use the term Allah, their hearts will be closed.

AND

clearly it does not mean, we are associating Allah with anything else other than having utmost believe n piety upon HIM, ALLAHUAKBAR.

7.1.2010 - came across this blog --> http://pukullima.blogspot.com/2010/01/angkong-saya-bukan-angkong-anda.html

so i guess, if i seem to be heading two cabang in what i was saying earlier..i guess where i was heading was more towards look at the bigger picture!there are more bigger and pressing issues and we shud NOT appear to be too defensive!

saje2 nk igtkan diri sendiri....

Pasangan yang sedang bercinta sering merasakan hidup mereka begitu indah dan bahagia. Namun jangan terlalu selesa dengan hubungan cinta yang terjalin.

Hakikatnya, cinta seperti sepohon pokok yang baru ditanam. Ia perlu sentiasa dibaja dan disiram agar kekal subur. Jangan sekali-kali membiarkan pohon yang anda jagai itu dimakan anai-anai, ulat atau serangga perosak yang lain.

Begitu jugalah dengan cinta. Kasih sayang yang melimpah ruah bukan jaminan untuk memastikan cinta yang terjalin itu akan kekal bahagia selamanya.

Namun apa yang paling penting, jauhkan percintaan yang terjalin daripada racun-racun yang boleh merosakkan dan akhirnya, membinasakan cinta. Paling bahaya, racun cinta selalunya bukan hadir daripada orang lain, sebaliknya wujud di dalam diri anda sendiri.

Mungkin kamu tidak tahu akan racun yang dimaksudkan. Oleh itu, ikuti panduan dibawah. Usir racun yang ada di dalam diri anda itu dan tukarkannya dengan penawar yang bersesuaian.

Racun 1: Berbohong
Apabila si dia mengajak anda makan di restoran makanan segera kegemarannya, anda sentiasa mengikut tanpa sebarang bantahan. Kemudian apabila si dia bertanya tentang makanan yang dihidangkan, anda menyatakan makanan di situ sangat sedap dan kena dengan selera anda. Hakikatnya di dalam hati, anda merungut kerana tidak berselera menjamu selera di situ dan berharap itulah kali terkahir anda menjamu selera di restoran tersebut

Penawar: Jujur
Pembohongan paling elok jika digantikan dengan sifat jujur dan berterus-terang. Mungkin untuk kali pertama anda terpaksa berbohong kerana tidak sampai hati untuk mengecewakannya. Tetapi jika pembohongan demi pembohongan anda lakukan secara berterusan, nescaya ia akan memakan diri anda sendiri pada masa akan datang. Tidak perlu takut untuk mengatakan perkara sebenar kerana kejujuran yang anda nyatakan lebih bermakna kepada si dia daripada menjamu selera di restoran tersebut.

Racun 2: Egois
Tidak dinafikan di dalam diri setiap individu punya sikap ego walaupun kecil. Malah ada juga segelintir orang yang mahu keinginannya dituruti walaupun untuk perkara-perkara yang terlalu kecil. Namun harus dingat, permintaan tersebut perlulah relevan dengan keadaan dan situasinya.

Apabila si dia menolak permintaan anda, mulut anda tidak henti-henti mengomel dan menuduh si dia mementingkan diri sendiri. Namun apabila anda diminta melakukan sesuatu dengan mudah anda menolak. Apabila si dia memberontak, anda tuduh pula si dia tidak mengerti perasaan anda. Langsung tiada tolak ansur dalam hubungan yang terjalin.

Penawar: Memahami
Salah satu kunci keharmonian dan kebahagiaan dalam sesebuah perhubungan adalah sikap saling memahami dan bertolak ansur antara satu sama lain. Memang diakui adakalanya sukar untuk menahan diri kita daripada terus bersikap egois, namun ada masanya kita juga perlu memikirkan hati dan perasaan orang lain.

Cara terbaik untuk menghilangkan sikap egois dalam diri anda, cubalah letakkan diri anda di tempat pasangan anda apabila anda meminta si dia melakukan sesuatu. Fikirlah wajar atau tidak permintaan anda itu dituruti dan adakah diri anda sendiri sanggup untuk melakukannya? Apabila anda sentiasa berfikir begitu, keputusan serta permintaan yang keluar daripada mulut anda pastinya lebih rasional dan tidak diselubungi oleh perasaan egois semata-mata.

Racun 3: Curiga
Seorang wanita menelefon teman lelaki anda. Tanpa sebarang usul periksa anda mengatakannya curang. Pada mulanya, pergaduhan yang tercetus hanya kecil sahaja tetapi anda terus mengungkit kisah-kisah lama termasuklah hubungannya dengan bekas kekasih dahulu.

Sedangkan wanita yang menelefonnya itu hanyalah teman sepejabat dan mahu bertanyakan perkara yang berkaitan dengan kerja yang amat penting. Sikap anda yang curiga tanpa usul periksa itu hanya akan mengeruhkan keadaan dan tanpa anda sedari ia mampu menggugat hubungan cinta yang telah sekian lama terbina itu.

Penawar: Percaya
Jika selama ini si dia terbukti setia kepada anda, tiada sebab untuk anda mencurigainya dengan hanya satu panggilan telefon yang dibuat oleh teman sepejabatnya. Sebaiknya anda minta penjelasan daripadanya dan si dia pasti bersedia untuk menjelaskannya kerana dia tidak pernah bersalah kepada anda.

Jika anda terus meletakkan kesalahan kepadanya, tidak mustahil kekasih anda yang setia itu akan benar-benar 'bermain kayu tiga' di belakang anda. Maklumlah daripada terus dituduh sedangkan si dia tidak melakukannya, lebih baik dia melakukannya betul-betul. Sekurangnya-kurangnya si dia berpuas hati dengan tuduhan yang anda lemparkan itu.

Racun 4: Posesif
Janganlah bersikap terlalu posesif terhadap pasangan anda. Atau dengan erti kata lain terlalu mengawalnya sehingga sampai ke tahap mengongkong. Malah anda sanggup menghabiskan ratusan ringgit setiap bulan semata-mata untuk mengetahui pergerakannya. Apa tidaknya, setiap lima minit anda akan menelefonnya.

Bukan untuk bertanya khabar sebaliknya untuk memastikan si dia sedang bersama siapa atau di mana berada. Sikap anda yang terlalu posesif itu akhirnya akan membuatkan si dia tidak selesa. Lebih teruk apabila si dia meminta untuk memutuskan perhubungan atas alasan tidak selesa dengan sikap anda itu.

Penawar: Beri ruang 'privacy'
Sesiapa sahaja di dunia ini memerlukan ruang 'privacy' sendiri. Oleh itu, jika anda tidak mahu hubungan yang terbina berantakan, percayalah kepadanya dan biar si dia menjalani kehidupannya sepertimana yang dikehendakinya. Tidak salah untuk memerhati atau menegur, tetapi biarlah berpada-pada dan dengan cara yang betul. Jika anda melakukannya secara tidak keterlaluan, si dia pasti akan lebih menghargai anda yang sentiasa berada di sisinya apabila dia memerlukan.

Racun 5: Main-main mata
Manusia memang tidak pernah puas dengan apa yang diperolehinya. Sudah punya teman lelaki yang kacak dan baik hati, tetap akan menjeling ke arah lelaki lain apabila berkesempatan. Sikap anda yang suka bermain mata dengan lelaki lain ini sebenarnya mampu merosakkan hubungan cinta yang terjalin.

Mungkin anda hanya berniat untuk 'main-main sahaja', tetapi bagaimana jika lelaki yang anda jeling itu memberikan responnya? Pasti boleh menimbulkan sengketa. Malah bukan semua pasangan kekasih boleh menerima perlakuan yang sebegitu. Ini kerana ianya boleh mencabar status mereka sebagai teman lelaki anda.

Penawar: Setia
Jalan terbaik belajarlah untuk bersikap setia dengan pasangan masing-masing. Sudah pasti si dia merupakan kekasih yang terbaik buat anda. Ini kerana selama anda berhubungan mesra dengannya, tidak pernah si dia menjeling atau memandang ke arah wanita lain walaupun wanita tersebut jauh lebih cantik dan seksi daripada anda. Itu membuktikan si dia menghargai anda yang berada di sisinya. Jika si dia boleh melakukannya, tiada alasan untuk anda terus mencuri pandang ke arah lelaki lain.

putting things in perspective

our actions or inactions determines our character whether we like it or not,
whatever that comes out of a persons mouth comes with a consequence that one has to deal with later on,
whatever that a person does, will suffer the same fate,
we tend to forget that or we just fail to foresee that part of reality.

it hurts more when the things you did or said,
affected another person and it was not in a good way.

reflections are always good but only if u r given time and space to reflect,
only if u know what u r reflecting on,
its an endless bottomless pit,
if u reflect but can't find the perspective of the issue.

i myt have said the things u didnt wna hear,
i myt have said the ryt things,
but at the end of the day,
its all about YOU.

do what YOU think is ryt,
do what YOU feel u have to do,
for whatever the consequence of your decisions or indecisions,
i will never leave you and let u b,
i will still be here,
extending my hand for your guidance,
my arms and shoulders forever there to embrace you,
and wil be by ur side whenever u need me!

the dream

having a terrible day today and i hate it when im feeling sucky, and the fact that had a sorta nightmare didnt help either n i had to wake up extra early today becoz of one of my siblings :(

add everything and stir it a little with a pinch of spat i had/stil having with ~u~ adds up to NOT ONE THOSE GOOLD OL' DAYS..

as for the dream= this is what i have to say to u!
everyone makes mistakes and as an avid believer tht one shud not regret anything that one has done but tk it as an experience, i know it was a mistake to do such foolish things and at tht point in time, it felt right and it felt safe and it didnt posed as a problem or a threat..i was young, i was naive and i was immature!

but having to dread the thought of it, day in and day out and having to hope that it'll go away and having to pray and wish that it doesnt appear anymore in any chapter of my life, is tiring and its such a worry.

i know God has His way and if anything were to happen, i'd have to face it & He would never grace us with anything that we can't handle as He knoweth best :) . it'll be hard but i hope too that the people i have with me, will be by my side and understand that it was some silly thing someone did when they were immature.

and i do hope that i have learnt my lesson!!

-end-

its so easy to comment, to ridicule, to insult, to judge, to say things behind people's back, to mengumpat, to gossip n shove our nosy faces on things we havent have a clue about and inasmuch as circumstances always have its way of explaining things, its nothing that people want to hear or realise. it is simply irrelevant!

so, this i say to myself, don't judge people or say things bout them esp if u don't know them! u never know when ure gna be at the other end!

don't think i don't know

gullible means credulous, trusting, naive, innocent, simple, green OR simply easily deceived or cheated.

naive means simple, unaffected, unsuspecting, artless, guileless, candid, open, plain.

some says that it myt be due to the fact that one only see the GOOD in people..

one myt say that one lacks the capability of judging people..

one myt say that one SHOULD NOT TRUST anyone..