speaking about *it* is sadly still a bit taboo back here...speaking about *it* even when ure amongst frens is still considered as *taboo*..making a joke out of it where it usually degrades the feminine counterpart is considered as *a joke*
parents should be able to openly discuss about *it* as educational as possible..it shudnt be regarded as when u speak of *it* with your child, it means u r supporting n let alone condoning *it*..preventive measures are always better that regret! malays as i have been told this week, are unknowingly *thinkers*, we r an innovative bunch, unbeknown to us,(weird huh?)..hence , it is the malays who said, "nasi sudah menjadi bubur, tiada gunanya"
there was also an Q& A column i read in one of the local newspaper that spoke of this lady who had been doing *it*with her husband for a period of one-two years since they got married and wondered day n night why she couldn't get herself pregnant..and often she kept blaming herself that she was the problem n NOT him. Until one day she came across some articles or pictures of the 'real' way of doing *it* that she realised that he had performed *it* anally..(do we really want THAT to happen to anyone we know?to be so ignorant of *it* that u don't even know that something is wrong!!!)
And i'm so glad that there are still a huge number of my friends who can stand up with their head held up high and say that they are still virgins (to u gals, i salute u!!) and ladies, there is nothing wrong with waiting until u get married. the most sick way of losing ur virginity is coz of peer pressure!!i really believe that that should never be the case!!i mean, at least do *it* coz u love the guy but not because everyone is doing *it* (but seriously n religiously, don't do it at all...hahaha...until u get married that is..) n wads all this crap bout doing it in a public toilet in malaysia?...(thats NOT wad people mean by being spontaneous coz its malaysia's PUBLIC TOILET!!can never imagine that!!its disgusting!!get a room..(i mean after u get married... im starting to sound like a broken record here...)
n referring to this pic i have posted here...just tell the girl..
guys, if u came across this..just tell the girl!!u myt find out that she might feel relieved rather than feeling guilty her whole life...
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