i believe...

more often than i can ever comprehend why, it is them* who wud always cnsider women such an enigma that no one can de-code except women themselves..n i guess there are more books on understanding or making the relationship better for women other than for them*..wonder why?cos on a business sense, more women wud buy the book and actually read it rather than them*..

well of coz with their machoness and ego nature, we can't expect them* to come into a book store n actually buy a book on relationship and actually read it, i dun think they'd* ever wna be caught dead reading it even on the toilet seat ;)

or prolly because its such a them* world, that they have MAKE us think that we're so incomprehensible to figure out that we'd just shut up bout ever wanting them* to ever try and figure us out..cud be ;)

having said that, what troubles me more is the fact that women can actually just,... after all the heart pouring and sharing sessions and letting steam off our chest, it all boils down to one of the few conclusions..

"THEY ARE ALL THE SAME" or there's only one in a million that would be the perfect one..(or if ure just out of a rotten relationship) u'd go, there's no such thg as a perfect one!!one of the best ive heard-->they're ALL jerks UNTIL proven otherwise :)

but if they're all the same n they're all jerks, y then do we keep whining n complaining bout them* on how insensitive or immature or incapable of showing any kinds of emotions other than their erections, y r we still with them*?are we supposed to just concede to the fact that they're all the same and as gerard butler puts it, that they're self-improvement stops at potty training!! are we supposed to just accept the fact and be content that we actually have one of them* n hope that, that one wud b THE ONE?

we need to step up!be 'man' enough to tell them* that i dunt care if its a man's world or what ever, these are the traits i want, u wna be with me, these are the things u gotta be..(of coz be ready for them* to come back to u and tell u the things that they want pulak la)...

prolly, after that, u'd realise that the idea of each other that u want is soooo vastly different than the one u have..better find that out before u go deep in the ralationship, kan?

i don't believe that we need to change just to be with each other but the sooner we accept the differences and acknolwedge that that is what is drawing us together, the better!

and i do believe that a woman falls in love sooner than men, or prolly they've fallen in love much sooner but its too scary for them to admit it or in a better word, too ego to admit, hence the expectations from women is far more earlier, wch boils down to, all the bickering and unsatisfied emotions...

but when one of them* falls truly, deeply in love with u,
they can even move mountains for you!(wishful thinking?probably not!i just know! :P )

*them/they = man and/or men