usually, if there's no blog post means --> Sasha is Happy :)
but smtimes it also means that i dont have the time to vent my stressness and angst and that'll make me feel even worse..
ayu said, "ktrang nie senang je, if marah ke ape, bg je makan, sure pastu ok.."
OMG, has it come to that, eh chop, or has it ALWAYS been like that? ;p
im quite an open book n it has NEVER tht hard to read me, (if i say there's nothing wrong, THERE'S ALWAYS SOMETHING WRONG!!like all the other gazillion girls/women out there)...
and what i look forward to every single time is to have a good time, is to laugh out loud, is to enjoy every moment and to be happy (ok, ok..who doesnt?) but the real fact is there are people who like to be miserable..they'll find every possible way to look at things negatively or these are the Pessimist..
question: if ure in fact a pessimist, can u choose to be optimistic about something?
but then again HOW? our mind is a very powerful thing or source but when it comes to emotions, can u choose what u want to feel?
im just blabbing for the sake of having a post, sorry!
p/s:
i care bout u more than anything n it makes me happy when ure happy, think n think again bout the decisions u r making or about to make, its a life changing decision!
ask urself:do u wna be happy for the rest of ur life coz that is what everyone deserves or u wna be content and take it as it is?
u control ur life and no one else does!
u r independent and u do not need anyone to dictate ur life for u!
u know urself n what it takes to mk u happy..dun settle for anything less!!
life does not end at marriage, its a start to a new chapter and its where two individuals start to make dreams together and work together to achieve it.
question: do u see urself doing that now?
think and think again n dont stop until u know uve come to a decision and no matter what happens that is THE decision and nothing EXCEPT ALLAH can stop you from taking that road!
every event that happens in our life are signs!!look deep at it and it probably is trying to tell u something!
2 comments:
Sha, I was the ultimate pessimist (and maybe still am to a certain degree) and thought that nothing could change that as it is just my nature...For everything that happens in my life, I would find a reason to be negative about it..example, when I got 2nd in Jsp, I was sad that I did not get 1st..and a TKC fren just told me few months back that I was like that even back in TKC! But then now when I have all the reasons in the world to be validly negative about my life, I find that I am constantly fighting to see the positive side of things and to find something to be happy about everyday! So actually, when push comes to shove, u can indeed change your way of thinking! anything to survive! (or perhaps its just me being contradictory as usual! and talking about contradictory, baru nak start active kan my Walking Contradiction blog!)
Sha, one thing I have always been jealous of you is that you are in my eyes one of the most optimistic person i've known, and that's why i love being ur fren, hoping that the way u look at life will rub on into me! So keep it up, babe! You rock!
nenek, (secret)i kinda had u in mind whn i ws writing that but xde la u like to mk urself miserable, the part that u are a Pessimist :)
glad to know that can change the way of thinking tp when it comes to emotions cane?can we really help it when we're so down in the dumps and people around us expects us to jump out of it n be happy?HOW?
i feel optimistic when it comes to other people n i guess i see myself as kena mk that pesimist see that there's always a silver lining..tp once in awhile when I AM walking in my contradiction, aku pesimist gak..hehehe..
i rock coz u rock, cheh!
glad n happy uve start blogging!!
serious gna miss ur whining kt aku :(
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