why soooo serious..sss?

almost everyone has 2 faces and everyday we wear different hats. do i have 2 faces?do people actually see through me and see that i have two characters that i may not know of?is it natural for people to be pretentious especially to people we don't quite know?or is it necessary for a person to have two faces as they have different roles to play in life?..like as a social person, i would be perceived as something else but when im at the office, i'm a different person?

Question: isn't it tiring to be like that?that you have to switch to different characters?or is the switch comes in naturally without you even realising it?

when we say we wear different hats, it means you act differently when a different hat is worn..say, when you are a leader of a pact, it means that your peers would expect that you take charge and tell them what to do but on another level when you are in a committee and you are just one of the pawns, you take a different role and become the follower of the committee, then you have to listen and get instructions from your team leader..a leader of a country may lead the whole nation but when he's back home, the WIFEY takes charge, or for some, the MOTHER ;p

Q: but where do you draw the line?when can a person truly knows who you are and where you're coming from?when can someone really say, "i know her well".

i know we can never run away from politics and/ or politicking no matter how hard i yell, "i'm not into politics or i hate politicians". but the fact is how, how do i measure one's sincerity?or has being sincere has become so taboo that people just don't find the need to do anything sincerely anymore?

i've done Johari's window and i know that there are parts of us that we can't see and otherscan see it, but still, i don't think the part where other people see us is too much of a difference than who we really are..

i think people should be able to differentiate between wearing different hats and having two masks..even when you change hats, you are still the same person but you don't change who you are BUT if you have two masks, i'm afraid there's a huge risk of turning schizo(schizophrenia), kan?having split personalities..

and to those few people out there, there's no harm is saying hello n just smile to one another, coz one thing that ive personally experienced, you never know who you're gonna be working with or bump into in the future...n the fact of the matter is, you never know that maybe one day, you might need the support of the people you might have dissed once in your life before!!(just a thought!)